He’s Worth It: Part 2 of Us

(Our First Selfie Together)

So I met my husband and we had been spending time together, but how did it become “we” and “us”? Well it happened really quickly and kinda naturally. It wasn’t something I really thought about.

After a couple weeks, we were finally spending time together, just us, and we just fit naturally. We were together all the time. I am an openly affectionate person so I was really surprised when his friends told me that they had never seen him this way with anyone before.

We were always holding hands, sitting close, and only had eyes for each other.

We hadn’t officially defined our relationship, we just wanted to be with each other all the time. It didn’t take long for the drama from that ex to start. As I mentioned in my previous post, she wasn’t ready to let go.

As with anything there are two sides to the story, and hers is not mine to tell. What I can tell you is what I experienced, but I’m going to leave those details for another day. I will say that the things we went through in our first year were unbelievable. At one point my supervisor sat down with me and asked, “are you sure you really want to deal with this? Is he worth it?”

I looked him dead in the eye and without any hesitation I said, “absolutely, he can’t control the actions of someone else. I will not judge him by the things that person does.

Less than 6 months into this relationship I was already committed. I knew what I wanted and I was going to put everything I had into it. Then it was “SURPRISE YOU’RE PREGNANT!”….

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